Harness the power of your voice
Communication is the lifeblood of leadership. It’s how you convey your vision, align your team, and drive action. According to studies, 85% of fast career growth and success comes from having well-developed soft skills, with communication topping the charts. When done right, communication builds trust, fosters collaboration, and enhances overall team and business performance. On the flip side, poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, decreased morale/performance, and even cause project failures and devaluations.
Why It’s Crucial:
Forget the tactics for delivery and everything else. What is your message? Is it important and relevant? Does your audience care about it? Does it meet them where they are? Your message is the foundation of your communication. We can’t talk about effective communication with defective unimportant messages. Your message must be clear, purposeful, and tailored to your audience. Start by defining the one core message you want to convey. Whether you’re announcing a new project, providing feedback, or sharing your vision, the singularity of message and purpose is key.
How to Craft Your Message:
Know your audience, know your purpose, and use that to craft your message. Deliver your audience with clarity intentionally meeting your audience where they are.
Non-verbal communication—such as body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice—often speaks louder than words. Research shows that up to 93% of communication is non-verbal. Your non-verbal cues can amplify or contradict your message. This means that you must use your non-verbal cues purposefully, ensuring that they are in sync with your words.
Key Non-Verbal Cues:
Stories have a unique power to help you connect emotionally with your audience. They make complex ideas relatable and memorable. The art of storytelling is one that everyone should be a perpetual student of. You’ve probably heard “Show me the story don’t tell me the story.” But what does that look like in practice? It looks like this
How to Use Storytelling:
Effective communication isn’t just about speaking; it must be engaging. Engaging your audience ensures they are actively listening and involved in the conversation.
Tips for Engagement:
“Character communicates most eloquently.”_Steven Covey. You do not communicate only when you open your mouth to speak or write down a message. You are communicating all the time by your character. Character alone is not enough though. And words alone is simply manipulation. For a good leader, their words clarify, emphasize, or amplify what their character quietly emanates.
When you communicate with character first before words and you do it consistently and transparently, you build trust with people (team, spouse, children, brothers, sisters, parents). When your words align with your actions, your people will trust and follow you faithfully even when they disagree with you or are uncertain about where you are leading them.
How to Be Consistent and Transparent:
Imagine you are a parent communicating with a child who doesn’t yet have full command of language. How will you do it? What do you use? You will use your voice dynamically to speak, your eyes to observe their reactions, your ears to listen, your mind to make sense of what you’re giving and receiving, your emotions (heart) to feel, your body to show or demonstrate, and for touch. Take time to imagine this. Is your voice going to be flat or very varied and distinct when expressing excitement, sadness, correction, etc? What about your eyes and facial expressions? How do you call their attention to someone or something else?
Great leaders master using these same tools to communicate at a higher level which is why they connect with their audiences and move them to action. External tools like probes and technology are add-ons. The main tools are built into you. These external tools could be aids for enhancing communication but they must be treated as secondary and optional. They cannot replace your natural endowments. In some cases, they instead distract from what is essential; you the speaker, and the message you embody.
Your voice is the most direct, the most used, and the most powerful communication tool you have as a leader. It’s a dynamic instrument that you need to learn to play with like a musical instrument. Think of a piano, a great pianist plays it at varying pace, volume, and pitch; changing it ever so purposefully to make beautiful sounds, rhythms, and smooth transitions. That is how you are to start thinking of and using your voice. Use its full range, tone, pitch, volume, and pace purposefully to convey emotions and states like seriousness, playfulness, confidence, empathy, authority, energy, excitement, sadness, anger, and more.
Mastering Your Voice:
Your voice is a reflection of your leadership style. Practice controlling it to influence how your message is received and how others perceive you. It is your auditory image. Many people care about their visual image. Leaders go a step further and pay attention to the auditory image.
Leadership communication is more about managing emotions than it is about conveying information. Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to understand and manage your own emotions, as well as recognize and influence the emotions of others.
Harnessing Emotional Intelligence:
Emotional intelligence is critical for effective leadership. It helps you navigate complex interpersonal dynamics and communicate in a way that resonates deeply with your audience.
Great leaders are both observant and sentient. They’re attuned to the subtle cues that others give off—body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice—which can reveal what people are really thinking and feeling. The first person they are fully aware and observant of is themselves. They take stock of their thoughts and feelings.
Developing Observation Skills:
Being observant allows you to adapt your communication in real-time, and respond to expressed and unexpressed needs and questions of your audience.
Awareness is about being fully present during your interactions. It means paying attention not just to what’s being said, but also to the context, environment, and the unspoken dynamics at play.
Practicing Awareness:
Awareness enhances your ability to connect with others, ensuring that your communication is relevant, responsive, and effective.
Listening is the most underrated, often ignored aspect of leadership communication. And this is a big problem in our families, relationships, work, and communities in general. Learn to listen and never waste an opportunity to use that skill intentionally and intently. Every day we have the opportunity to train our listening. All the great leaders have one thing in common. When they listen, they give you their full and undivided attention. They listen to hear what is said but also what is not said but implied.